Any healthy man gets aroused many times faster than a woman. For most, just a glance at a naked body is enough to get an erection and have sex afterward. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people who have a kinesthetic type of perception of information from the outside. They need to touch everything, feel it physically to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner enjoys touch and stimulation the most, he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with increased tactile needs will not refuse to look at a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulation techniques with your hands and other parts of the body!
It's a mistake to think that only women need foreplay. Men also love affection and are not afraid to prolong the pleasure they receive to relax physically and psychologically. And there are no less erotic points on a strong body than those of beautiful young women. To have a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge of intimate areas, so let's enrich our repertoire with seduction techniques. Today we will learn how to stimulate a man with our hands and learn how to press all the "red buttons"!
Sensitive spots in men, caress them properly
Sensitive areas are the areas of skin that are most sensitive to touch and impact. Their caresses help increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only the common erogenous zones of men but also the unique zones of each guy, which gives you power over your sex more strongly. A man will go crazy when a girl caresses him as if she is reading his deepest thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the penis and scrotum area. Most men feel pleasure when a woman's hands stroke their hair. Equally pleasant is gentleness such as touching the back of the hand to the cheeks, eyebrows and chin. Stroke his hair with outstretched fingers so it falls in the middle and runs the ends over his face. You can complement this action with gentle kisses on the earlobe. What pleases me most is not the touch of lips but the warm breath, felt so deeply.
Neck
This part of the body in men is ideal for arousing manual passion. The most vulnerable area is the strip of skin from the earlobe to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertip up and down and follow it up with kisses. You can caress with your tongue if your partner responds positively to such stimulation.
The line connecting the hair growth point to the area between the shoulders is the running line. Hot tours start here, signaling that the lady will soon go lower and there will be a "bonus". . . Gently step over her with the edge of your palm or fingers. Most likely, your body will get goosebumps. Repeat.
Backside
On the back, to correctly stimulate a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder area,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular region,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "accumulators" of desire can be caressed with your fingertips, your hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men get very aroused when they touch a woman's nipples behind their back.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an extremely attractive gesture, especially in cases where the female body is completely naked.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely blatant provocation - caress the back of the sacrum (coccyx area) with your vulva. Just keep in mind that in a few seconds the guy will not be able to control his desires, so the secret seduction will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
By the way, a blindfolded, motionless partner will focus more on tactile stimuli, and therefore experience more acute sensations. Take note of this idea!
Close
On the front of the body, the most immediately sensual points when caressed are the nipples and the pubic hair, leading to the pinnacle of male greatness. Please note that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than women, so you should not pull them with the same intensity. There are individuals for whom such incentives would be off-putting, therefore, dear tigresses and leopards, let us purr and listen to the wishes of the object of our seduction. Many people like it when a girl puts her palms on her chest and stomach while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not a sensitive area, but gently massaging the center will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. On the contrary, the hand has some quite sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner crease of the arm, is a place that is susceptible to the slightest touch. More brutal tactics went unanswered. You can move from this place to your wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle finger and ring finger. Many guys react to her touch by thinking of stroking a penis.
- The insides of the palms and fingertips are also very sensitive to gentle touches from hands, lips, and warm breath.
Foot
Do you still think that men's legs have nothing to do with arousal and are only needed for support during sex? You are very wrong! Turns out, the foot is actually an erotic crater! The fingers knead, gently caressing the heels and instep, making their owner excited.
The hollow area below the knees is another erogenous zone for manual stimulation of men. Caress, light touch, pressure makes him become passionate.
The junction between the torso and thighs is filled with nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this area of the male body as a highly erogenous zone. Caressing his hip bones with your fingers can make him shiver with pleasure.
anus
Many men do not let women into this area at gunpoint because they are embarrassed or afraid of creating the image of someone who is focused on their own kind. And nature created her very sexy! Caressing the external and internal anus will stimulate any man. The main thing is to relax. Gently caressing the anal ring with your fingertips will bring him a feeling of pleasure. If you want, you can put your finger in his ass and feel the most sensitive spots there with maximum responsiveness to passionate calls. We wrote how to do this in an article on how to convince your husband to have strap-on sex - read it.
Dick and scrotum
And the main dish is of course masculine! Stroking the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, using your fingers), penile masturbation, and touching the skin in the area between the anus and genitals can lead to ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress your penis with your hands to stimulate him
To properly stimulate a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that jerking up and down and rubbing the foreskin is quite enough to create enchanting sensations. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle the penis and be no less careful than a woman's vagina.
How to hold it correctly
There are several basic ways to get a penis.
- The traditional option is the fist, where the movements can be "up and down" translations or they can imply rotation in a spiral.
- We press the tip on top with our thumb, and the rest lies below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and index finger, connect them and make a fist (see photo below),
- If you first lubricate your hands with lubricant, you will easily arouse a man. A fist in an inverted position (you should see the back of the hand and the thumb facing the woman) should move as if it were crushing the penis.
Caress with fingers and hands
To enhance the feeling for your partner, women need to pay attention first to the warmth of their hands. By using any penis grabbing technique, stimulating the man with warm hands, you can quickly achieve orgasm. But you should not heat the scrotum too hot. This is not good for men's health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex enjoy when a woman gently pats the shaft with her knuckles. It is better to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to scare your partner with sweeping movements.
A man has a special feeling when his penis is caressed by two women's hands at the same time. We place dignity between our palms without curling our fingers. We move up and down slowly and rhythmically, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a lot of foreskin, jerk him off differently: you do not need to enter the base, but on the contrary, make squeezing movements towards the tip. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone is stroked - the head of the penis, and since the strokes are carried out indirectly, there is no risk of eradicating it. Men with such a structure will shine thanks to such techniques!
It is important not to forget to caress the testicles. The impact of simple massage movements not only brings excitement but also health: you can avoid problems with sexual function in adulthood by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold, squeeze, pull them to the side or down a little (a little! This is not a wrist stretcher! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in circular and random motionstouch the testicles.
An unusual stroking with a nail plate, which should be pulled along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add attractiveness and improve the effectiveness of the entire process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl needs to rub her labia on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without entering the vagina.
Combining the suggested techniques with a high-quality blowjob will help surprise your man and leave him in ecstasy in just a few minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules on how to stimulate a man with your own hands. To achieve harmony, examine his body every centimeter and monitor his reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We've told you how to prepare a man for sex and arouse him as much as possible, but you want to create a standout feature that will have him completely and irrevocably hooked. change. Let's try to overcome potential opponents and find the anchor on which we will place him as a drug!
- Always soften your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movement. Slide turned on the man.
- Apply pressure, caress, gently pinch the muscles and remember to stop for a few seconds. This aroused great passion.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and gradually work your way down. It is not necessary to go straight to the genitals.
- As you move to your perineal area, play with your clothes or a stretched towel after your shower for added excitement. Place your hand in his unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage your clit and whisper in his ear how excited it makes you.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and tell him what to do next minute. Even strong men feel excited when a girl takes the initiative herself.
- Combine caressing each other. Let the pleasant hand massage turn into a wild drunkenness, when the guy no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of provocation will cover him!
- Use your chest. You can caress the penis with both palms and rest your head on the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main advice is to always use skillful Thai techniques. Once you've gotten to the point, choose another very sensitive area and caress it at the same time. This can be member-anus, member-lower back, member-buttocks, etc. v. You yourself will notice what a man reacts to more. When he's finished, move to another sub area and stroke discreetly for another 20-30 seconds, as if soothing your partner. It should not be the most sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over again - it will become your trick.
To stimulate a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you do not need to wait for hints or requests from him. As a rule, the representative of the stronger sex is not averse to giving up the initiative in bed to her partner, relying on her playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male stimulation.
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